I was talking recently with a friend of mine about her husband turning 40 in May. He's apparently pretty very freaked out about it. I too am turning 40 in May (less than 2 months away), and I realized it doesn't bother me in the least.
We'd originally planned on having a great evening out. My birthday actually falls on a Saturday, and even though I'll be volunteering that morning at the school carnival (yay - big 4-0), Jim and I planned on dumping the kids off with the grandparents and hitting a high-dollar steak restaurant that night. Yes, even though the parents are going to be getting in that afternoon from a week long vacation, I was still going to take advantage of Kamp Kennemer.
But then we were talking at dinner the other night about my birthday, and Grace said "Well, Mommy, we're going to
Cafe Madrid for you birthday, right?". What could I say to that? So now the big night out is no more. I just can't deny my almost 5-year old daughter's wish to celebrate my birthday with the family at out favorite restaurant.
I also realized that I'm not freaked out at all about my impending birthday. In fact, I think I've come to see that I already feel like I'm 40. I don't know when it hit, but the years all seem to blend together now. And I don't know how long I've felt like I'm already 40, but it's apparently been a long time now.
Now don't get me wrong - I do plan on having fun this year. The girlfriends and I have decided to do a weekend away (no kids, no spouses) to celebrate all of us turning 40 this year. But I don't feel like I need this weekend to deal with turning 40. I just like that I have a good excuse to have a girls weekend.